Beachborough Newsletter: Friday 28th February 2025
Head’s Blog
“Every young person has a balloon of self-belief within them, and our role is to help inflate it.” James Shone
On Thursday, we had the privilege of welcoming James Shone to speak to the children in Forms V to VIII and later in the evening to Parents. His talk, about inflating balloons of self-belief, was both moving and inspiring, offering profound insights into how we can nurture confidence, resilience, and a positive mindset in our young people.
James’ own story is one of remarkable courage. Having been appointed as the Headmaster of Monkton Prep School in 2012, a routine medical examination revealed a brain tumour that led to significant sight loss and the relinquishing of his dream job. But rather than allowing adversity to define him, James used this challenge as a springboard to inspire others. His charity, I Can & I Am, is dedicated to helping young people develop strong self-belief, ensuring they recognise their own abilities and potential.
James’ inspirational talk led me to think about why are so many young people struggling? The answer is complex and would take much longer than this blog allows to answer but a contributory factor is no doubt the role of social media which often presents an unrealistic and curated version of success, leaving many young people finding themselves feeling inadequate, overwhelmed, and disconnected.
At the heart of James’ belief is this crucial truth: our children need to believe in themselves. They need to focus on what they can do rather than dwelling on what they can’t, for when young people develop a strong sense of self-worth, they are more likely to embrace challenges, seize opportunities, and navigate life with confidence.
In James’ talk to parents, he explained that every young person carries within them a metaphorical balloon of self-belief and that as parents and educators our role is to help inflate that balloon, ensuring that it remains buoyant even in the face of adversity. In doing so we need to celebrate areas of strength, as this encouragement fuels confidence. We need to model resilience, showing our children that life’s inevitable setbacks are not failures but opportunities to grow. We should foster an environment where kindness and collaboration are valued and finally, support them to recognise their potential, explore new interests, and develop their own sense of purpose.
This is the third time that I have heard James speak and his words left me with a renewed commitment to supporting our children in recognising their own worth. Beachborough is committed to ensuring that every child feels valued, empowered, and confident in their ability to contribute meaningfully to the world around them.
If you would like to learn more about James Shone’s work and his charity, visit his website at https://icanandiam.com
Wishing you an enjoyable weekend,
Simone